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1850–1919

BEFORE AND AFTER

Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Before I lost my love, he said to me: ‘ Sweetheart, I like deep azure tints on you.’ But I, perverse as any girl will be Who has too many lovers, wore not blue.

He said,‘ I love to see my lady's hair Coiled low like Clytie's — with no wanton curl.’ But I, like any silly, wilful girl, Said,‘ Donald likes it high,’ and wore it there.

He said,‘ I wish, love, when you sing to me, You would sing sweet, sad things — they suit your voice.’ I tossed my head, and sung light strains of glee — Saying,‘ This song, or that, is Harold's choice.’

But now I wear no colour — none but blue. Low in my neck I coil my silken hair. He does not know it, but I strive to do Whatever in his eyes would make me fair.

I sing no songs but those he loved the best. ( Ah! well, no wonder: for the mournful strain Is but the echo of the voice of pain, That sings so mournfully within my breast. )

I would not wear a ribbon or a curl For Donald, if he died from my neglect — Oh me! how many a vain and wilful girl Learns true love's worth, but — when her life is wrecked.

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